How to Deal With Kids Who Just Won't Respond to You or Your Punishment?

You tried to discipline your child, but they ignored you. Your child may be unresponsive to typical child discipline. Some parents may be inclined to label such a youngster as obstinate or simply bad. As a result, they are unconcerned about timeouts and other punishments. Alternatively, they practically yawn at a raised voice as teenagers. When children act stubbornly, parents grow irritated and reply with a harsher punishment out of anger or spite, which is neither fair nor effective.

If parents wish to determine an acceptable punishment for their children, they should first figure out why the unpleasant, discipline-worthy behavior arose in the first place. It also turns out that determining why a child misbehaves in a situation helps avoid that behavior.

Remember that strong-willed kids are experiential learners
 
That implies they'll have to check the stove to determine if it's hot. So, unless you're concerned about major injury, it's better to let children learn by experience rather than lecturing them or controlling them. Let her take charge of her activities. Don't nag at her to do anything.
Teenagers who feel more independent and in charge of themselves will have less need to be oppositional. Not to mention, they take responsibility early. If you find it difficult to stay calm during such situations or can't figure out what to do, I am there to help. Get positive parenting solutions from Aly to help you build an understanding relationship with your child with mutual love and respect.

Punishment Needs To Be Strategic

It is not babying a child to try to reduce parent-child confrontations and listen to their concerns. It's at the heart of many "zero-discipline" tactics, and what is parenthood if not teaching children to make good choices? However, occasionally destructive behavior patterns persist, and children must be disciplined. The key to determining an effective plan of action is to base it on the natural consequences of their activities. The punishment must be relevant to what the child did and why they did it. It must be instantaneous for the youngster to associate it with the 'crime.' If the child's behavior hasn't changed, the new penalty isn't solving the problem. Parents should attempt a different approach if the behavior does improve. The punishment is effective, and parents should remember to praise kids for their improved behavior.

Connect more

For all children, a connection is essential because they will not accept your direction unless they feel linked to you. This is especially true for children with strong personalities. When she was 21, my strong-willed daughter told me that if she had been reared by someone else, she might have become a criminal. I don't believe it to be true, but she was a difficult youngster who could never be intimidated. She did what I told her to do because she loved and respected me. The most effective technique to influence your strong-willed youngster will always be through connection.

I can assure you that following these mentioned ways will help you to deal with your teenager in a better way.